As I prepare to leave and return to Iraq and 2008 comes to an end I wanted to reflect on my time here with family and friends. I didn't get to see as many friends as I would have liked and certainly didn't spend as much time with family as I wanted, but I am thankful to have been allowed to spend this Christmas with my family while many serving our Nation could not. In my nearly 28 years of marriage I have never missed a Christmas because of work. I've been called in and had to leave for a few hours, but never have I missed Christmas. Many of you probably have also never missed Christmas or other important family events. That is not the case for our military and the many support personnel that serve with them. While some do get the opportunity to come home the vast majority do not. Pray for them as this year comes to a close and the new year begins.
My time home was wonderful, but not as you might expect. To be honest with you the separation from Nancy and the kids has been so difficult the thought of returning to Iraq often consumed me. It was, at times, hard to focus on what was going because my mind was on having to return. Nevertheless, my family and I had a great Christmas and are trying to get excited about the New Year despite my leaving here on the 3rd of January.
I met a friend of mine for breakfast this morning and had a great time of fellowship and sharing. During our time together he explained to me that unhappiness and even depression are natural responses to very difficult times. He also reminded me that although God never promised that we would at all times enjoy great happiness if we trust in Him, He did promise to never leave us and to never forsake us and that nothing He does is by accident and without purpose. Thank you Sam.
Twice this week I had the opportunity to play golf with another friend of mine. One day was as pretty as a golf day could be and the other was played in near hurricane winds (not really, but it was really blowing). How we finished I'll never know, but finish we did and had a great time. While our score keeping is a little more relaxed than the PGA I'm pretty sure I won. Don't worry George you'll get another shot at me when I return home in June.
Friday I will meet my Pastor for breakfast. While I don't know yet what all we will discuss I am grateful that he has set time aside for me before I leave. Until you leave for a long time it is hard to understand how much you miss and how important people are too you. I often wonder how difficult it must have been for our soldiers during WWI & II and even through the Vietnam War. There was no Internet or cell phones, just the mail and even now that often takes weeks to arrive. Talk about lonely. These guys had little or no contact for months and sometimes longer, and their deployment periods were often much longer. Such sacrifice is amazing to me.
My hope and prayer is that all of you had a wonderful Christmas and will experience the full extent of God's blessings in the new year. I am posting a picture of the Christmas tree the guys back in Mahmudiyah erected prior to my leaving. While it is nothing spectacular it signifies a strength and resolve to celebrate our way of life no matter where we are or what our current circumstances may be. I hope that no matter your situation God finds you and me faithful and clinging to the hope He has promised us all. Sometimes life is not so good, but God is always great!
Happy New Year!
My time home was wonderful, but not as you might expect. To be honest with you the separation from Nancy and the kids has been so difficult the thought of returning to Iraq often consumed me. It was, at times, hard to focus on what was going because my mind was on having to return. Nevertheless, my family and I had a great Christmas and are trying to get excited about the New Year despite my leaving here on the 3rd of January.
I met a friend of mine for breakfast this morning and had a great time of fellowship and sharing. During our time together he explained to me that unhappiness and even depression are natural responses to very difficult times. He also reminded me that although God never promised that we would at all times enjoy great happiness if we trust in Him, He did promise to never leave us and to never forsake us and that nothing He does is by accident and without purpose. Thank you Sam.
Twice this week I had the opportunity to play golf with another friend of mine. One day was as pretty as a golf day could be and the other was played in near hurricane winds (not really, but it was really blowing). How we finished I'll never know, but finish we did and had a great time. While our score keeping is a little more relaxed than the PGA I'm pretty sure I won. Don't worry George you'll get another shot at me when I return home in June.
Friday I will meet my Pastor for breakfast. While I don't know yet what all we will discuss I am grateful that he has set time aside for me before I leave. Until you leave for a long time it is hard to understand how much you miss and how important people are too you. I often wonder how difficult it must have been for our soldiers during WWI & II and even through the Vietnam War. There was no Internet or cell phones, just the mail and even now that often takes weeks to arrive. Talk about lonely. These guys had little or no contact for months and sometimes longer, and their deployment periods were often much longer. Such sacrifice is amazing to me.
My hope and prayer is that all of you had a wonderful Christmas and will experience the full extent of God's blessings in the new year. I am posting a picture of the Christmas tree the guys back in Mahmudiyah erected prior to my leaving. While it is nothing spectacular it signifies a strength and resolve to celebrate our way of life no matter where we are or what our current circumstances may be. I hope that no matter your situation God finds you and me faithful and clinging to the hope He has promised us all. Sometimes life is not so good, but God is always great!
Happy New Year!
